Another bottleneck.

chenbingjy

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First of all, I declare that I am a rookie. Although I have worked for some years and have worked very hard, I am still a rookie. There is a cycle that makes me very distressed. When I first joined a company and started working, I encountered difficulties and tried my best to overcome them. But as time went on, the difficulties became more and more difficult to overcome, and I often lost confidence and thought about giving up. I always felt that this problem could not be solved and wanted to retreat. Masters, what should I do? Thank you!

chunyang

You must first weigh the degree of difficulty and whether you can overcome it. If not, how much you can overcome, in stages. If it is far beyond your ability, you should give up decisively. People should challenge difficulties, but the difficulties should only be just beyond your limit. However, it is easier said than done. The essence of this problem is "know yourself and know the enemy", but knowing yourself is more difficult than knowing the enemy.

chenbingjy

chunyang posted on 2019-1-14 14:32 You have to first weigh the degree of difficulty and whether you can overcome it. If not, how much you can overcome, in stages. If it is far beyond your ability, you should give up decisively...

Thank you, Chunyang, you still understand me

chunyang

Most people don't know themselves or the enemy most of the time. What can they do? The only way is to compete with yourself. As long as you are a little better than yesterday, it's good enough. Persevere and don't be greedy for more or faster results. Just persist.

chenbingjy

chunyang posted on 2019-1-14 14:57 Most people don't know the enemy or themselves most of the time. What can we do? The only way is to compete with yourself. As long as you are a little better than yesterday...

Persistence is more important than method. Persistence is hard to achieve.

chunyang

For example, if you encounter something you don't understand, don't try to solve it all at once. There is a forum here, just ask. If you don't understand, just ask. Solve only one problem at a time. Don't open a new question before solving it. Don't stop until you solve it. If you can't understand the answer, it means that the question is wrong and far beyond your ability. Then you have to put it aside for now and give priority to solving simpler and more basic problems. Find your current limit and improve little by little. Slow is fast here.