1. Buy an alarm clock to wake you up on time. Being lazy and not punctual will become stumbling blocks in your work and career at any time. You should not only learn to be on time, but also learn to be ahead of time. Just like when you take a car to a certain place, the scenery along the way is very beautiful, you can't help but get off the car to take a look, and later although you still arrive at a certain place, you don't arrive on time. "Alarm clock" is just a simple sign and reminder. The real flexible and practical time is in everyone's heart.
2. If you don't like your current job, either quit or shut up. When you are new, you often have high expectations and low skills, and you are arrogant. You can't do big things and don't want to do small things. Don't develop the habit of being picky. Don't be bothered to open an umbrella on rainy days, and don't be afraid of getting wet without an umbrella, and show dissatisfaction everywhere. Remember, if you don't do it, don't do it well.
3. Everyone has lonely times. You must learn to endure loneliness, so that you can mature. Young people are used to laughing and playing, but when they arrive in an unfamiliar environment, facing all kinds of people and things, they suddenly feel at a loss. Sometimes there is not even a place to talk to each other. At this time, don't be impetuous, learn to calm down, learn to endure loneliness. Think in loneliness, mature in thinking, and sublimate in maturity. Don't lose your mind because of loneliness, and do boring and useless things, wasting precious time in vain.
4. Be prepared for bad luck when you are lucky. One day, a fox walked outside a vineyard and saw the juicy grapes inside, which made him salivate. But there was a fence outside, so he couldn't get in. So he made up his mind to fast for three days, lost weight, and finally got into the vineyard for a full meal. When he wanted to leave the vineyard with satisfaction, he found that he was too full and couldn't get out of the fence. I believe no one wants to be such a fox. The retreat is equally important. Carry dry food when you are full, and carry an umbrella when it is sunny. Accumulate little by little, and you will succeed naturally. Some things seem worthless today, but one day they may be worth a hundred times more.
5. Don't be as fragile as glass. Some people always stare at themselves, so they can't grow tall or see far; they always like to complain about everything, which makes others very annoyed. Without bitterness, how can there be sweetness? Don't be as fragile as glass, but be as transparent as crystal, as brilliant as the sun, and as strong as winter plum. Since you open your eyes to enjoy the coolness of the wind, don't complain about the tiny grains of sand in the wind.
6. Keep your mouth shut. Don't talk about yourself, let alone talk about others. Talking about yourself often makes you arrogant and hypocritical, and lose yourself in a name that doesn't live up to your reality. Talking about others often gets entangled in trivial gossip. It's not a good thing to drink and chat with your colleagues and friends after work every day, because they often talk about colleagues and friends as topics. It's always bad to talk about people behind their backs, especially talking about others' shortcomings, which will lower your personality.
7. Opportunities will never be "lost". If you lose them, others will get them. Don't rely on God for everything, sit back and wait, and don't pin your hopes on "opportunities". Opportunities are only for those who are fully prepared and good at creating opportunities. Perhaps, when you are regretting and complaining about losing an opportunity, the opportunity is being seized by the same "unlucky guy" opposite you. If there is no opportunity, you must create it. If there is an opportunity, you must seize it cleverly.
8. If the phone doesn't ring, you should call it out. Many times, the phone will bring you unexpected gains. It is not a vase, but just a decoration. Don't forget your old friends when you make new friends. The more friends you have, the easier it is to go. A big trick of communication is to take the initiative. Good popularity and good reputation often help your career to a higher level.
9. Don't rush into marriage just because you have reached the age of marriage. If you want to get married, you must find a partner who can be in harmony with you and support you. Don't fall in love for indulgence and games, don't affect your work and career because of love, and don't let your life be hindered by a hasty and failed marriage. Emotional things often lead to small losses.
10. Write down the things you want to do in your life, put the list in your wallet, and take it out to look at it often. Life needs goals, plans, reminders, and a sense of urgency. Putting small goals together will become your big goal in life. When life becomes richer and the environment improves, don't forget the seemingly thin list in your wallet.
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