We can resonate, but we can’t empathize

hanson520

We can resonate, but we can’t empathize [Copy link]

How can someone fully understand your suffering and your difficulties? No one can! It is very rare for you to meet someone who has a little bit of sympathy in the vast sea of people.

There is no empathy. Empathy means to wear your shoes, walk your way, endure your hardships, stay up late, read your books, and endure your difficulties! How can it be possible? It is impossible. We come from different places, we have different educational backgrounds, different life experiences, and your desire for complete empathy is almost a luxury.

hanson520

Whenever I am on the verge of collapse, I feel relieved instantly when I think of these words.

hanson520

There is no such thing as easy in the adult world. Empathy is not suitable for bystanders, let alone an adult.

hanson520

If you are not in it, how can you empathize with it? When facing difficulties, we must learn to control our emotions and learn to digest the joys, sorrows, anger and happiness of the world.

fjdeepblue

13991364893 Posted on 2024-1-10 10:55 You know your own feelings, control your emotions, don’t open your wounds to everyone you meet, take your own steps and stride forward.

Well said. Even the people closest to you may not understand you, let alone empathize with you.

吾妻思萌

Well said, but every day when you open your eyes, you have to pay 300 or 400 yuan for mortgage and car loans, which makes many middle-aged people have no time to take care of their mood.

fhl12431

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