There are no permanent friends or enemies in the workplace

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The workplace is like the rivers and lakes. I still remember that when I first started working, I treated everyone and everything I came into contact with like I was listening to a teacher's class. I treated everything that seemed to be my learning object with courtesy and politeness. It was not enough to be submissive. This was the duty of a junior novice. After a few years, the newcomers in the eyes of others have become seniors in the eyes of others. I inevitably came into contact with newcomers who looked like me back then, but they were more mature and smooth than me back then. They were even better than me. I couldn't help but sigh: Who said that the workplace is easy to wade in? Whether it's a mule or a horse, you have to pull it out for a walk. It's also another world of heroes fighting for hegemony. The swords and swords here are not obvious. Everyone is a top master. The sword energy is silent, colorless and tasteless, but it kills people instantly. If you see someone who always shows off his or her skills and brags about his family background and martial arts in front of others, then you don't have to take it seriously. This person is either a novice or a third-rate character. His or her lethality and level are not worth our attention. You can just laugh it off. Those who can be called martial arts masters are all ordinary people. It is not easy to distinguish them if they are not veterans. Only experts can see that their every move is calmer than others; or they are crazy and heartless and call you brothers; or they follow the rules and give people the impression of being honest. The so-called layman sees the excitement while the expert sees the door. If you meet these people, you have to be careful. When masters fight, they usually have no moves in their hands but have moves in their minds, and they have moves but seem to have no moves. When two people are evenly matched, bystanders can never see where their moves are, but their moves often determine the outcome. This is a character like Li Xunhuan, who never misses a target with his flying knife. In the workplace, such people are somewhat conceited and disdain small moves. They are considered to be a person who does not offend others unless they offend me. They are real people with real talents. They want a resounding name and rely on real kung fu to conquer the world. What you should guard against is the person who is sweet on the outside but treacherous on the inside: he calls you a big brother and a brother, and you share the joys and sorrows with him. But when it comes to a critical moment, he is the first to use you as a stepping stone and be ungrateful. He also feeds you a poisonous hidden weapon to attack your weak spot, fearing that there will be endless troubles if the roots are not removed. He is ruthless and does everything he can to get rid of it once and for all. Jiang Biehe is one of them. This kind of villain believes most in: No poison, no hero. He would rather betray the world than let the world betray him. Dear sisters, if there are such people who are attentive to you for no reason, you must be on guard against them and be more careful in everything so as not to regret it. However, it cannot be said that there is no loyalty in the underworld. The so-called black and white thieves also have their own code of conduct. In the workplace, in addition to practicing the eighteen martial arts, the most important thing is to stay close to gentlemen and stay away from villains. The villains I refer to here are those who are two-faced, specializing in flattery, hypocrisy and insidious; if they are really villains who are openly fighting and showing off their carriages, I would say from the bottom of my heart that I admire them. Therefore, there are heroes and heroes in the workplace; there are gentlemen and villains. Don't think that the crooked and crooked are not qualified to accompany us people of the famous and upright family just because they are underworld and you are white. In today's world, it is impossible to distinguish between absolute black and white, right and wrong, good and bad; good may not be really good, and bad may not be really bad. It is not easy to be clear-sighted. Who among us who work hard in the workplace has not suffered a few losses and who has not taken the blame for others? The important thing is to learn from your mistakes. Don’t the elders always say: People who harm others should not be on guard against others? I am not teaching you to cheat, but we step into this world with bare hands to fight for tomorrow in order to survive. It is not easy for anyone. It is better not to be knocked out in one or two rounds. You must be perseverant. You must always adapt yourself to this era of the survival of the fittest, the winner is the king and the loser is the bandit. Otherwise, if you are squeezed out of your place and you don’t strive to make progress, who will sympathize with you? The workplace is an eternal world. As long as this world exists, the right and wrong, grudges, struggles, and survival of the fittest will always be entangled. We can do favors without expecting anything in return, nor should we expect anyone to lend you a helping hand; we can forget hatred, but we must remember the lessons; we can neither harm others nor benefit ourselves, but we must spare no effort to fight for what we deserve. Because in the workplace, no one will thank you for your humility, nor will anyone be grateful for your help. Here, it is never possible to send charcoal in the snow. As long as others do not add insult to injury, you are lucky. As for icing on the cake, there are still icing on the cake, so we don't have to feel disappointed in the workplace. There are no permanent friends and enemies in the workplace, so people who are not good at showmanship should not become friends or enemies with anyone in the workplace. Keep a proper distance, so you may be less embarrassed and disappointed. Anytime, anywhere, you just need to remember that the workplace is like the rivers and lakes. The rivers and lakes are dangerous and exciting. As long as you are strong enough to withstand the hardships, you will be a hero after you graduate. Anytime, anywhere, you must also believe that there is a rainbow after the storm. If you fall down, get up and move forward, you can always find a smooth road. Who says people in the workplace can’t become successful?

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